Saturday, June 16, 2018

Dr. mOe's 10 Rules for Success (Self-Help)

In this podcast, Dr. mOe shares 10 practical and creative ways to live a more happy, productive, and fulfilling life by making yourself a priority. These strategies are excerpted from her latest book, "Success Is A Side Effect: Leadership, Relationships, and Selective Amnesia." Download your copy today on Google Books or Amazon! Follow her @drmOeanderson

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Monday, March 12, 2018

Andrew's World Radio Interview with Dr. mOe Anderson

Engaging, informative discussion on oral health's relationship to overall wellness and why this is important for both adults and children. Professor and former National Dental Association President, Dr. Kim Butler Perry and Dr. mOe Anderson discuss the devastating impact of oral health inequity on low income communities on Andrew's World Talk Radio.

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Thursday, February 15, 2018

Self Publishing Guide for Aspiring Writers

Photo: Dallas Library Event Wtih Traditional and Self-Published Authors 2017

There is no better way to increase your brand awareness than writing a book. I know this from experience. I have been an author and journalist for almost 30 years. Six published books, 100's of articles, and several anthologies have my byline. My writing has led to a busy speaking career, coaching other speakers, back of the room sales at industry conferences whether I was speaking or not, and invitations to participate in major events where the intellectual exchange with other participants opened new, exciting doors for me. Writing is my oxygen. I remember not being a dentist but I do not recall exactly when I became a writer.

Another offshoot of my literary life is that people constantly approach me for advice on publishing their first book. Often, they have written a few or several chapters but they have no idea what to do next. I have published the traditional way with a publisher and I have self-published with my own company, TyMAC Books. The industry has changed so much since I started. You no longer need to write long proposals and wait several months for rejection letters from editors who "don't think you have an audience" meaning you are not famous already, like former political aide and reality star Omarosa famous (or infamous). To her and those risk adverse editors, I say, "Bye!"

You can self-publish a high quality e-book in a few months without a second mortgage or a second thought. My bandwidth is tight almost all the time, but I love to help others share in my addiction to words. Soooo, in 2011, I created this self-publishing quick start guide for a quick response to all the requests for advice from aspiring authors. I have updated it multiple times but the major steps to creation have not changed drastically.

DISCLAIMER: I can not possibly cover every step of self-publishing in a 4-page guide so you must take classes, read books on publishing, join writers' groups, attend workshops/classes, and seek professional advice (attorney, editor, cover design...) for a comprehensive understanding of the process. If you try to do it all yourself, it will look like it and you may end up with a bad contract you cannot extricate yourself from easily.

Good luck. Please post your comments and share this blog on your social media sites.

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Monday, January 8, 2018

Run Oprah Run

Recently, media mogul, Oprah "Golden Touch" Winfrey made a speech during the Golden Globe Awards. As always, she was articulate, well prepared, and passionate in her delivery. She moved the audience and Twitterverse with her opinions on racial injustice, #metoo, and freedom of the press. It was quintessential Oprah. A quick YouTube search yields a treasure trove of her speeches of equal if not greater caliber. She said a lot but one sentence seems to have moved every news anchor to the edge of their seat. “I want all of the girls watching here now to know, that a new day is on the horizon," Oprah said in a tone that sounded both like a call to action and a threat. A threat to whom? I have no idea, but many pundits believe that Oprah is planning to run for President of the United States in 2020. So I guess it's a threat to anyone who dares oppose her.

I am very happy about her announcement for one reason. Finally, the media has something else to talk about! I am a news junkie but, lately, hearing the same thing on broadcast after broadcast has forced me to put on my reading glasses and find the "off" button on my remote. As Americans, we believe we have free speech and the news is fair and balanced unlike those countries where broadcasts are closely controlled. That's true theoretically but there has always been an editor or editorial team deciding which stories out of thousands of stories deserve to be shared with the general public. When we hear about collusion and Korea every news cycle it means news from other parts of the country and other parts of the world were kept from us. And when the news is always depressing, divisive and disastrous, it is not an accident--it is a programming decision.

There are good things and good people doing amazing things every where, every day.  Wouldn't you just love it if those "new day[s] on the horizon" routinely included stories about all the wonderful men and women who actually are making the world greater?


Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Racism, Sexism, and Fear: Fight Back & Win! (Must Hear! Motivation)

Does all the news and negativity have you feeling like nothing you do will make a difference? Think again. Dr. mOe Anderson is a native Texan who has faced and overcome unimaginable odds against her including: racism, sexism, regionalism, and cancer. Take a few minutes to be educated and inspired by her words of encouragement. This is the time for YOU to make a difference!

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Thursday, October 26, 2017

Don't Stop Listening Radio (Motivational)

Dr mOe believes one key to success is "stop trying to make a dollar and start trying to make a difference!" Dallas radio host KJ and Dr. mOe discuss this advice and much more during this fun and informative interview!

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Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Do You Have A Poker Voice?

Successful leaders learn to not only have a poker face but they also have a poker voice.

What does that mean?

It means that when they speak, they have learned to control the tone of their voice, the pace of their voice, and the content of their remarks so that it is difficult to gauge what they are thinking.  This gives them a distinct advantage because others cannot anticipate their actions or reactions.  It makes them appear more powerful and superior to ordinary people.

This is a critical skill for work and home: watch your body language.  Make sure it is consistent with your words.

After body language, watch your tone.  Try to keep it neutral at all times.  In the bestseller, The Forty-Eight Laws of Power, the authors assert that "An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings."

All of know at least one drama queen or drama king.  They love to yell and make a scene when they're offended.  While all of that screaming might make them feel better in the short term, in the long term it does nothing for their careers or their relationships.  I mean, how often can you give someone a piece of your mind before you run out of brain?

Dr. Richard Carlson makes a suggestion that I have found extremely helpful in dealing with difficult situations.  He says, "Before becoming defensive, take note of what is being said…Reacting in a defensive manner usually involves a knee-jerk or instantaneous reaction to something that is being said.  Someone makes a comment and you feel hurt.
Pause a moment and ask yourself these questions before you react.  "Does the comment make sense?  Is there an element of truth in it?  Can you learn something here? Or is the person simply being a jerk?"  (Don't Sweat The Small Stuff at Work, Hyperion 1998, p. 203-204)

If there’s something you can use, take it and run with it!


My First Published Book Was Controversial But Worth It

Friday, August 18, 2017

National Dental Association 2017 Presentation Excerpt

Need a professional chuckle? Click on this video excerpt from my recent presentation on managed care dental programs during the National Dental Association Conference in Dallas, Texas. If you are in a hurry, skip to 8.13 where I relay my first experience with the Employee Assistance Progam aka EAP.

Making the transition from serial entrepreneur to corporate America can be stressful. An important part of personal growth is developing a sense of humor! #successisasideeffect #needaspeaker?

Sunday, August 6, 2017

Millenials & Gen X'er Talk Love Languages

Dr. mOe and the hosts of The Show discussing love languages from the perspective of males and females and  millenials vs gen x. Prepare to laugh out loud

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Sunday, June 11, 2017

The Surprising Benefits of Being a "YES" Woman

No one taught me to be a "YES" woman.  My teachers taught me to dissect, debate, and defend. My mentors tell me leaders are usually going against the tide. My parents taught me to be independent, assertive, curious, loyal, kind, and faithful but they never served crap for dinner. Thus, I am adverse to swallowing things that look, taste, and smell like hmmmm poop.

Verbally agreeing to everything someone is saying when I vehemently disagree internally is, shall we say, not one one of my strengths. Listening carefully while quietly reflecting in order to give a measured, thoughtful response at some future date is smart and professional. I do that often. I just cannot, in good conscious, endorse a plan I sincerely believe is doomed for epic failure in order to gain someone's confidence or approval. For men, this trait garners respect. They say the guy has a spine. In women, well, I only speak for myself---so in this woman's life, a propensity for giving an honest opinion has not always served me well. Instead of shattering the glass ceiling, it became a reason to install limousine tint, bars, and an armed guard to keep me in my place.

What becomes of a person who can't look up and see beyond their circumstances?

That should have made me a YES woman, but it didn't. It only made me distrustful and overly cautious. Then, I saw the movie, "Yes, Man" starring Jim Carrey. I don't even like his movies that much but, for some reason I can't explain, I decided to try it. I started saying yes to every legal invitation I received. It was a bit frightening but guess what happened? I went kayaking for the first time! I sang a solo at my parents' fiftieth wedding anniversary!  Lol! As I am a horrible singer, this was a huge leap of faith. I bought a round of drinks (Dr. Pepper) for the bar! I collaborated with a new group of entrepreneurs on an amazing initiative. I took chances.

I realized that I had let control take control of me. The pitiful glass ceiling in my career only covered one room. I simply had to move. In doing so, I kicked down walls, opened my fists, and felt a sense of exhilaration I hadn't felt since Six Flags over Texas installed a double loop roller coaster. Guess what happens to a ceiling without support?

Feeling trapped? Let go of the need to know the end of every beginning. Take a chance on something new and let the sunshine in.

Monica Frazier Anderson

Entrepreneur Is A Lifestyle, Not A Title

Thinking of leaving that corporate job and starting your own business? That's a great idea but there are many important factors to consider before you take the plunge. In this audio excerpt, Dr. mOe shares important questions you should ask and answer before you make a commitment that will impact every aspect of your life. Dr. mOe is a serial entrepreneur who has achieved business success in retail, health care, real estate, and publishing. Hear her share lessons learned and best practices from her own experiences. For more, subscribe to her iTunes podcast and YouTube channel. Then, visit her website at today!

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